paraphrased a little, but mostly accurate

mira: this guy across the street from us got thrown out the window the other day.

shaun: he didn’t get thrown out the window, he fell out.

mira: fine, he fell out.

me: so it was almost a defenestration!

shaun: well, it was auto-defenestration.

me: ha! and if he fell out the window while filming porn, it’d be auto-erotic defenestration!

often, these things are a team effort.